Sunday, August 31, 2014

Of Forests and Trees. Babel


As a church, we want to move with the Spirit of God. In fact, one might argue that without the Spirit of God, it isn't a church moving. It's but a group of people who ultimately don't have that critically important third ingredient to guide our actions toward love, reconciliation, mercy, equality and justice.

Spend time as a group discussion what it looks for the few of you, and then Crosspointe as a whole, to hoist sails and catch the Wind in our homes, schools, jobs, city and world.


Thaw

  • How is your life changing with Summer coming to a close?
  • What have you learned about yourself recently?
  • What has most stayed with you from Sunday morning?


Read

  • Genesis 11:1-9
  • Thoughts?


Read

  • Acts 2:1-21
  • Thoughts


Discuss

  • What kind of symmetry do you pick up on when you read these two stories, separated as they are by thousands of years?
  • God is bridging a gap between peoples. Why is it necessary that The Spirit is involved in this reconnecting?
  • This is a story about a minority of people not merely managing their sins and staying out of trouble, but moving toward and into others' world to "make the two, one". When you think about the birth of the church, in what ways does your or your family's faith have room to grow?
Read
  • Ephesians 4:28
  • Thoughts?
Leader note: Help the group see that this little verse is Paul describing the two major phases of faith. A "stop sinning and be good" phase, which is very important. And then a matured, "here's the good we accomplish" phase, which is what marks us as not merely religious or moral, but "Christlike".

Discuss
  • What are the difficulties in growing from a "sin no more" phase of your faith, into the "go and serve" phase?
Apply
  • In what ways can this group, and the individuals and families that comprise it, take a more active role in bringing about the love, the healing, the reconciliation and the peace of Christ?



Sunday, August 24, 2014

Of Forests and Trees. Isaiah.


If you can get through a day without having to genuinely say you're sorry to another human being you're probably doing faith wrong.

As a group, discuss the importance of slowing down our speech, recognizing the power in our words whether intended or not, and the peace restoring effect of saying "I'm sorry". And perhaps, as a group, you can become the kind of people who can't get through a day without saying "I'm sorry" because, with a disciplined mouth wired to a transformed mind, you're finally starting to do faith right!


Thaw

  • What changes in the calendar are upon the members of the group and how are those affecting life?
  • What most stuck with you from Sunday?
  • What is something you had heard before but it struck you differently? Why do you think this is?


Read

  • Isaiah 6:1-6
  • Thoughts?


Leader note: It may be worth pointing out that before, as is depicted in verses after tge, Isaiah can be commissioned, as is depicted in verses after this passage, he must first deal with his own junk. Those who speak for God must do so from a place of real transformation, not simply information.

Read

  • Proverbs 26:18-28
  • Favorites?


Read

  • Matthew 5:21-24
  • Thoughts?
  • Why would Christ prioritize reconciliation with another human being over the act of worshiping God?


Discuss

  • What is the difference between mere censorship and truly disciplining your speech?
  • What are we saying when we say we're sorry?
  • What are we saying when we say we're sorry but also make sure that the offense of the others are included? ("I'm sorry, but you.....")
  • What are we doing when we demand someone say they're sorry?


Leader note: This is a question that deals with what the other feels and what we are demanding they feel. If we demand an apology, we are often demanding an act. When someone takes the time to understand the hurt they have caused, the "sore-y" will be felt and the apology will come. Otherwise it's forced, which could be argued to be a second insult!

Apply

  • There are undoubtedly people in this group whose words have made others in the group uncomfortable. Do you think it might be you? Why or why not?



Sunday, August 3, 2014



For the next three Sundays (August 3, 10, 17) there will be for the Sunday messages no specific discussion guides provided. Use general questions such as these below, while also being mindful of the specific passages, stories and themes covered.



  • What's something going on in your life that made this Sunday pertinent?
  • What did you learn about yourself, others or God?
  • What were the new ideas and what were the reminders?
  • What passages were taught in the message, and how did the teaching about these passages awaken you to the story we're part of?
  • Did other people and your relationship to them come to mind during or after the message? Who and why?
  • What areas of growth have you identified?
  • How can this group help you grow in those areas?
  • What do you suspect will be working against your effort to grow?



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