This week, we will build discussion on last week's theme as well as talk about some NT principles and an interesting statement found in psalm 137:1-4. When times are at their toughest, we many times withdraw from God and wait for things to get better before we deem Him worthy of our praise and following again. We can't even imagine seeing Him the same way when everything is going wrong around us.
This week, you can pick up on some of the exact theme from last week, as well as how we build on the message.
Thaw
- What's something you haven't done in a long time that you really miss doing?
- What something someone has asked you to do, but you just don't want to do anymore?
- What changed? Why don't you do it anymore?
- How is this like what happens in our faith when things get difficult?
Read
- Psalm 137:1-4
- First thoughts?
- Can you blame the Israelites for feeling this way? Why or why not?
Read
- Romans 5:3-5
- First thoughts
- Spend some time as a group walking through how this progression actually looks when lived out.
Leader note: You may help the group note that the rejoicing in the beginning has in mind the hope and character in the end. You can't rejoice if you don't think there is anything beyond the suffering, or that you are going to turn out worse for it. We must believe that God can redeem anything, and come back to the principle of not knowing why, but that God IS going to do something about it.
You may also note, if none of the group members recognize it, that the words "us" and "we" are used in this short passage 6 times (literally about 3 in the original language, but implied as many as 3 additional times, as translated in English in the New International Version). This supports the pervasive call of the scriptures, in contrast to our modern way of living individually, to live these realities openly, in community, vulnerably and in long term unity, no matter what.
Discuss
- What are ways we hang our harps?
- Do you agree that giving up on living in trust, selflessness, love and holiness are ways we "hang our harps"? Why or why not?
- In looking at the passage from Romans 5, what are the benefits of someone sharing their grief, pain and suffering with you and the group? What are the drawbacks?
- What does this say to our need to tell our story(ies)?
Application
- What can this group do to collectively pick their harp back up?
- What's in the way?
- What needs to change to make this happen?
Our group has moved past NOOMA's with the Pandemic study. First, I have to say that everyone seemed very happy that we were actually cracking open the Bible (although the NOOMA's are great). This particular discussion really struck a cord with some members in our group and we had several people really open up about some junk going on in their lives that were really weighing them down physically, emotionally and spiritually. I felt like this study has brought our group from social to spiritual and it's definitely brought us much closer. It's awesome to see people care for one another.
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